That one question that has never been answered!,,...I mean,,,even the men themselves don't know why they cheat...these days,,its so hard finding a faithful man cos no matter how much a man claims to love a woman,,,he's out there somewhere telling the same thing to another girl.....And now,,,its even more perturbing cos you hardly find a married man without a mistress....Even dem young ladzzz now feel its okay to have a "girlfriend " and at the same time have a "side chic"...this has gone beyond d ordinary, it has to be spiritual... y'all need to calm down!if u know u can't be faithful,, then don't get into a relationship!
This generation is quite outrageous!There must just be a reason behind this inevitable act....So yh,,,guys tell us...why do y'all derive so much pleasure in cheating????and what can be done to minimize it,,since it can't be stopped!....Share your thoughts! ╮(╯3╰)╭
It's a question that shall never have D right ans... The same thing goes for women.. "Y do women cheat?" There isn't an ans to that... Just diff ppl out der with their diff tots n opinion bout d matter. everybody cheats... Whether It's intentionally or not...Thats just d fact!! D ones who do it intentionally well... They need God in deir lives.
ReplyDeleteIt goes past love for men not to teach, some men have made the decision as a result of the priorities they have made e.g love for God. As for those that cheat,I would say, as guys, we get easily bored most times its just for the adventure. It mostly doesnt mean they dont love the person they are with.
ReplyDelete:************ I don't cheat :)
ReplyDeleteA dog is a dog,a cat a cat,their nature does not permit them to act alike,except for one thing they share: ANIMALS....Now,we are humans and there's this thing called LOVE,that's ONE EMOTION animals don't have,contrary to popular belief that ALL MEN CHEAT i dont believe so,and I'm not even a guy,I'm a girl,see when you find this one person who completes you,the thought of them cheating never comes to mind,this is so coz love makes you blind to a lot of bullshit. IN MY OWN OPINION:I think girls play a big part in guys cheating,when we learn to be more patient the guys will be limited to being either faithful or single...sometimes we rush things and when we get hurt we blame it on the guy,just saying!!!
ReplyDeleteHas or is your boyfriend cheating on you? lol,i think you guys should sort things out before you come posting silly things
ReplyDeleteTabsy Tabsy!!! this girl you have words sha,anyways,I dont think any man cheats,men dont cheat,boys do.
ReplyDeleteWe are who we are. We are a projection of chains of reactions set into motion on the day we gasped for our first breath on earth. Our blessings are our curse and it cuts across to ladies this days giving rise to reflection of hunter and pray as seen in resent times. Our very bodies are embodiment of chemical reactions that calibrate our emotions ranging from anger,love,jealousy and labido. Question was why do men cheat and now my question is how many people have full control over the emotions I listed? we have little or no control in as much as we cannot control the beats of our very own heart. If a cheat gives birth to a kid his DNA nd characteristic is transfered to a child and it makes up what the child is. Let me quote u'''And now,,,its even more perturbing cos you hardly find a married man without a mistress....Even dem young ladzzz now feel its okay to have a "girlfriend " and at the same time have a "side chic'' this kinds are seeds of a cheating fathers/mums so what do u expect? We were not given a choice of which traits and feature we get from our parents they were imposed on us but we have a choice to learn to control em and be better. They say ladies are moved by what they hear and dudes are moved by what we see but literally don't we do more seeing than hearing so who is in a tighter spot. I'll blame a whole lot on the media cause we are what we eat, read nd we see. They tend to imbibe what they see on tv and hear in songs mistaking act for reality. Things we watch and counsels we take affect us consciously or sub consciously 'INCEPTION'. This days the ratio of women cheating is almost equilibrium to men. Both parties encourage it dear. If a dude is turned down severally it will reduce the amount of his trials but this girls patronize and this days return the favour( on sum keri Hilson shit). And in all sense and worth don't categories it to just men you ladies are hitting an all time high yeah u are. U evolved over time but yeah we started it nd evolution is necessary nd can't be stopped don't u think. I try to be a better man but sometimes shit gets real. Finally and for my closure the chemical Balance and genetic make up and drive in Men is more like a raging storm that just wants to be calm nd set at peace with nothing prompting it, ladies are more like sleeping storms that rage if nd only disturbed .our build and genes differ and react differently. Question answered? BUKSMAN*
ReplyDelete@ Buksman's comment....nice 1!all said!
ReplyDeleteWomen cheat more,simple.
ReplyDeleteThey cannot be helped!
ReplyDeleteits a simple thing, not all men cheat and not all women cheat too! the faithful people are few. the lucky people get dem, if u really love ur partner ders no reason for u to cheat, i pray we all find true love!
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