Tuesday 26 February 2013

Sex before marriage...right or wrong???

Biblically,,,Premarital sex is wrong!..but judging by the way things are going in the world today,,people believe it's okay to have sex before marriage and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.....!
Research has shown that couple who wait till marriage before having sex are happier and have more stable relationships and a more rewarding sex life...How true is this???
Some people believe that sex makes their relationship stronger and makes it to even last longer..Some others feel they can only prove their love for their partners through sex....
And because of this,,we hardly find young girls that are virgins these days...!
Alota questions i wanna ask;.
-Would you wanna marry a virgin???
-If your partner doesn't want sex,will you be able to wait?
-Do you think sex before marriage is right or wrong???
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Premarital sex...↘Yay OR ↘Nay...?????

24 comments:

  1. I think its wrong sha!

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  2. Itz bad....but then,its fun to do bad things.

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  3. B4 marriage so nt kul..tho depends on d person in question....*s 4 me #team-ammakipkip

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  4. I believe sex before marriage is wrong...therefore it shldnt be practiced...and ofcourse i wanna marry a virgin!

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  5. I think it is wrong..but hehe it is an unending battle between Nature and Nurture.

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  6. Sex b4 marriage is wrong... Buh It could be made a beautiful sin

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  7. Its wrong... If you ask 85% of guys today, they want a virgin. Why? Because dey wanna b d first to taste d fruit u kno. But the same guys would gladly misuse the 'girlfriend's fruit before marriage. Personally I believe sex before marriage does not hold a relationship in anyway. Just pleasure for hours or even minutes and it's over. How does that help? I'm not ready to hv sex before marriage n if my partner cannot wait I believe he's just not d ryt person or he could mop the oceans for all I care. Ain't nobody got time for that. Those girls thinking sex is keeping the relationship together, I fold my hands for you. If u really love the person n want to spend d rest of ur lives together then WAIT till you are actually in a position wer uve already started spending ur lives together (when ur married of course)... Being a girlfriend, side chick or whatever does not guarantee that you are gonna be the last to get the ring u know. If he can waste time before putting the ring on your finger then you waste more time without giving it to him. That's fair enough. If he says that he cant wait anymore and has to move on, what makes u tink he wuldnt still move on when he's tired of ur fruit?

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  8. Tabsy,you seem undecided. lol. But to me,premarital sex is a NO. The emotional,spiritual and physical consequences are way too many.

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  9. I luv dt previous comment where d pson said "Those girls thinking sex is keeping the relationship together, I fold my hands for you"....nice one!lol

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  10. There's a reason why an authority figure or leader says "I now pronounce you husband and wife"....."YOU MAY NOW KISS THE BRIDE" They are NOT yours if you're not married so don't touch what you're not yet given.

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  11. Biblically its wrong but lots of wrong things are right in the site of man ,especially with the growing norm of lesbians and homosexuality ,it will only lead 2 another broken home if after all the waiting your spouse is gay,i am indifferent when it comes to this issue i think it depends on individual choice,its 2complex an issue for few words.

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  12. Bad before marriage. Against God's plan for the sweet pleasure called sex.

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  13. Tabsy what do u think about sex urself?

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  14. Hmmmn, I actually wonder if this is what yall think

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  15. Anyway, personally I have decided not to but apart from being biblically wrong, its more of a personal decision for me. Also, keeping urself till marriage is not a guarantee u will be happier or have less problems, everyone should just do what he or she believes is good for him or her

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  16. It's wrong..too bad majority of people in this present generation do not see it as a sin.God gave sex as a gift to married people only

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  17. Tabsy r u a virgin? Yes or No

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  18. Wrong!! No debate about that.

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  19. So a bunch of virgins commented on this? Why are people hypocrites like this? Pre-marital sex happens. Wrong or Right on what basis? Religious? Morally?. I'm a realist and realistically, and I know that if something is generally accepted by the majority then its right. Sex before marraige is generally accepted so it probably has more advantages than disadvantages. Just an opinion though.

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  20. Its wrong but there is d temptation. there is the need to test d goods out. there is d need for gaining experience. but its ultimately wrong. it dont make no one stronger. Has d big potential to destroy everything n is a major reason for cheating (u get tired of the same p**sy)

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  21. If all of you say its wrong then who r all those people out there having sex? Or hav I just walked into a JS3 class chatroom?

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  22. Wait until marriage oh,Where der is no guilty conscience Or limitations to ur enjoyment. N do u no data wen u hv sex on ur marital bed,d angels of God are available in d scene

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